Six Pack and Senior

THE LANDSCAPE OF THE EARTH AND HEAVEN IS LITTERED WITH THE BROKEN BODIES, MINDS, SPIRITS, AND LIVES OF MEN WHO HAVE STUMBLED OR HAVE BEEN BROKEN. The crucible that we live in, that refines us, that makes us better is often more than we can bear—-and we quit and we become part of the littered landscape. We see it all the time. But, what we don’t see is the hearts and individual struggles of each broken man. We only have the capacity to observe, make notes, and try to avoid the calamities we witness. Sure we can stop to try and understand but life has a curious way of ushering us along our way and the lessons potentially learned are quickly forgotten.

In the midst of defeat and self loathing and the ultimate destruction there are spirits that attain a foot hold. They cling to the rocks around them for dear life. They gather themselves and take stock of where they are and what is required to stop the bleeding and move in a different direction. To say the least, the “rebuilding” process has begun.

The man who is under “reconstruction” is doing it with an eye toward never making the same mistakes again.

After a major bodybuilding defeat we can either sulk and surrender or we can get back to our offices, lay out a plan to win, get back to the gym and change all that’s wrong into all that is good. Nobody wants to face a man who has been broken and is now being rebuilt. For he knows where all the mistakes were made. These do not exist any longer. His arms are bigger, more defined, and stronger. His core and his core values have been galvanized and there is only strength and a will to win in this new man’s heart.

What I’ve described above is the “epitome” of failing, gaining redemption, resetting your direction with a “Holy” commitment to excellence and to win. There is no stronger man in the world than the broken man who has rebuilt himself. This potential foe will not ever be defeated again.

Final thought: To win means you have to be willing to fail. To win means you have to be able to see a way to win where none is obvious. To come back from the brink of Hell is a testament to the character of the broken man who will rebuild himself. Always reject quitting and always search for the way forward.

Always be on the “REBUILD” there is no greater activity.

I’ll never forget the quote from Paul “Bear” Bryant, Hall of Fame Coach from the University of Alabama when he said, “Win?!! Hell, everybody wants to win. But! Victory belongs to those who “PREPARE” to win. Being a winner is not automatic. Simply participating does not qualify any of us to enjoy the fruits of victory, like trophies, medals, parades, privileges and the like. To say it again. Never “EXPECT” success unless you prepare for it. This preparation guarantees nothing but it does position us for the win when the time is right.

This little lesson has been ingrained into me and my generation nearly from birth. “IF YOU WANT TO BE BETTER, FLY HIGHER, BY SUPERB—-YOU HAVE TO SHOW YOURSELF TO BE ALL THOSE THINGS!” As one of my bosses said to me when I asked for a promotion, “Douglas, there’s no free lunch!”

I’m going to take a moment here and send “A MAJOR SHOUT OUT TO MY SON, SAMUEL THOMAS KNUTH, 2LT, UNITED STATES ARMY ON HIS PROMOTION THAT WAS ANNOUNCED TO DAY TO 1LT.!” We are so proud of him and this great work ethic he shows every day of his life. Again! Congratulations Sam! You earned it!

This congratulatory message is precisely what this article is about. Sam prepared and Sam has won. This is the way it’s done.

Let’s all of us make a commitment to be ready to seize all the goodness and rewards for having prepared for success.

For the record my preparation is coming along well for April. I’m not going to be ready for March….sorry! I will be dialed in and I’ll let you know how it goes. More later so go get ready to win!

This is poignant and yet it must be discovered. Another way to say it is, “just because something is true does not make it applicable to us unless we make it so.”

All of us wants things to occur in a great and masterful way for us. But, we go about our lives with lackadaisical attitude that betrays the passion that lives within us. We make plans that will satisfy our family and financial needs. We plan for a family because it is the right thing to do. We watch our kids grow up and leave the nest because it is the responsible thing to do. Then, we outline a retirement that is supposed to reward us for a lifetime of work. To me, living our lives like this is not wrong. But, it is more akin to being a paralytic laying beside the “Pool of Bethesda” waiting for the angel to come down to stir up the water so that we can then be healed and walk. Ouch!

I submit as noted above that our passion, our personalities, our desires, our souls become animated the moment we first comprehend that our single life is all we have and we ought to be about the business of optimizing and maximizing every nanosecond of our existence. Suddenly, the thing that animates us and drives us forward is operationalized. As the song from the group Queen says, “nothing can stop us now!” We move heaven and earth to do what we are called to do and time is running out. Going through the motions of being alive will never satisfy us ever again. We are “in it to win it!” My old friend Doug Andrewski who is the organizer and promotor of the Titan Classic in Kenosha, Wisconsin said to me when I was lamenting that I wished I had started bodybuilding at a much younger age, “Doug! Just remember this, All we have is today and I (Doug) have a lot of potential.” In other words, “start where you are and tap your potential that you possess.” Nothing else matters in this realm.

To be clear. I am no suggesting that we jettison our lives in exchange for something better. Quite the contrary. Finish what you started but be encouraged that life is now going to be lived actively from now on. Being simply passive and reactive will never do again. I think I’ve said enough.

This is our time and we will be granted no extra seconds, minutes, hours, days, weeks, or years. Be courageous and do that for which you are called. If we do that, all of us in the world benefits from our greatest efforts.

Your second life has begun!

This is a self fulfilling prophecy and a stand alone truth. Man! We are so arrogant to think that if we do anything at all we deserve great results. LOL! I encounter people all the time that tell me how they went to the gym, worked out, and they see no improvement. Well, like somebody told me a long time ago, “Just because you go into the garage does not mean you’re going to come out as a car.” The same logic applies.

A gigantic truism is that going to the gym all by itself is not the secret to changing yourself or your own physique. Getting to the gym is admirable but you have to have a plan of execution for that time in the gym. Even before going to the gym we have to have a goal or some idea about what we want to accomplish….an end point toward which we work. The final basic variable is time. We have to be in the gym daily over a certain period of time. Consistency plus hard work plus a personal vision will yield the desired result.

In our zeal to be better we attack our training with what we know (or what we think we know). As we attack we begin to learn that there is much more that is required of us to be great. We have to be willing to do hard things. We also have to be willing to change or to expand our training to get the desired results. Sometimes we get so stuck in our ways that we over develop some muscle groups while other muscle groups get neglected and the results and unimpressive. Often, instead of doing personal introspection we get disappointed and we try to push through by faking it. Under developed body parts go further neglected. So, we make excuses.

There can be no reason for neglecting portions of our workout with an eye toward explaining away the lack of development. It is said that the first people that will notice our unpreparedness is us. Then it will be our colleagues. Ultimately, our competitors will see our personal dishonesty on full display as they dismantle us on the field of contest.

Bottom Line for all of us, whether it be in bodybuilding or any other endeavor that requires meticulous preparation is that we cannot escape the consequences related to the work we did not do.

As my wife has said to me, “IT IS SO EASY TO DO BUT IT IS ALSO SO EASY NOT TO DO.” I cannot blame anybody but myself if I neglect to do that which is required

We’ve all been around colleagues in the gym that are always anxious to share with us their new found skill or their new “sure fire” way of getting bigger arms or a tighter waist or those gargantuan quads. We are subjected to a non-stop lecture or testimony to the latest and greatest. All this seems to happen as we bend our will to get our workout done and behind us, so we can go home to our wives and our lives.

The reality of our success in the gym and bodybuilding is our ability to keep a low profile, talk little, keep our eyes on the bar and—PUSH!!

I recall my coach, Justin Dees telling me “that people do not care about your time. They will quite easily come over to where you are working and start asking questions, chattering about things without much thought about you. To them, you are the objective. Your attention. They waste your precious workout time and when they are done I/we have lost that time we had set aside for our training. We cannot get that time back.”

The art of self-mastery is gained by trial and error and the constant reshuffling of our priorities. Quiet self-mastery must be developed in the crucible of focused intent, effort, and self-imposed isolation to gain the prize or the designated objective. Bodybuilding requires nothing less than repetitive concentrated explosions aimed at winning. It is never the time to talk about anything. Time is precious. Save your breath! As my brother-in-law used to say about braggarts, “Rave on bullshit! The crows will get you at dawn!”

I say, “be still and know that there is a God.” Let the results of silent work manifest itself to all that will look and know your character. That it is good!

“I’m so glad I’m a part of the family of God….” But as we travel the road of life there are so many things that tug and pull at the fabric of who we are. There are parts of our personalities that once defined us as good and attractive, and competent, and friendly get torn away from us. We do our best to hold onto the good things as we battle the challenges and demons that present themselves to us. Each of us knows the price we pay to be the best we can be and sometimes the price is too high.

These are simple truths but let’s again use bodybuilding as the crucible that I and an entire culture uses to try our souls to be better. At first, like in every area of life, we learn of the challenge and the rewards for participation in bodybuilding. We ruminate on the entry, the planning, the work required and the rewards to be garnered for our effort. Then one day we say to ourselves, “I’m in and the process begins in earnest.” Along the way we find out that nothing is quick and easy. We want things to be faster but the goals and objectives are always out ahead of us. We push harder and harder to be better but nothing is as it seems. But, we press on!

The unfortunate thing we run into is that other people are constantly attempting to undermine your efforts with harsh criticism and belittling and sarcasm. Ouch! All we want to be is better but there it is! Not everybody wants you to succeed. Ouch again! This process isn’t limited to bodybuilding. It’s a universal truth that weak people can only throw rocks from the sideline rather than going about the business of winning themselves in their own worlds.

The danger of all this is that we can lose the spark that makes us who we are. The spark that propels us down roads rarely traveled by others. The spark that has caused us to have many great friends. That spark that is motivated by love for ourselves and a thousand others. At all costs and with great humility we need to exercise self-mastery in such a way that we are motivated to continue and be protected from the harshness of the world. We were not made to be static objects. We are dynamic warriors marked by God and energized for goodness toward ourselves and everyone we meet.

In closing just know that when your spirit is crushed no good thing can be realized. When the spark that ignites you is present all things are possible. This is the spark that makes you YOU!

I just had to write this to my wife in this forum called SPARTAN SERIES because this is the place where I dump my other passions. This is the place that Christine allows me full range of thought regarding bodybuilding and life. To not use this same space to tell her of my most important passion (namely her) would render me derelict at best and far worse if I thought about it.

Christine, since I met you I have been better. I’m never going to say I’m always right but I’m better. I’m better because you bring out the very best in me. Your spirit always draws me closer to you and that make us the best couple in the world—-bar none! You don’t make me glow. It’s your glow that forever attracts me to you.

Christine, I am good at many things but I truly can’t do anything without you. You make me feel great about me. Your presence and touch makes me happy! There is nothing better than you.

I could keep dumping great things on you but there would never be enough said. One of my favorite quotes that describes you and us goes like this, “What started as a simple melody has grown into a roaring symphony!” Your love has no end in this world nor in the world to come.

Stay close! I’m not very good without you!

HAPPY BIRTHDAY CHRISTINE

DOUG

I make it a point to respond to as many people who respond to my “SPARTAN SERIES POSTS AND PHOTOS.” The whole goal is to connect with as many personalities that are ding well with training, competitors, the ones that are having trouble getting started, and the crowd that is struggling to stay on track. I find it incredible that my journey through the world of bodybuilding has impacted so many others. There isn’t a time that I don’t get 50-150 compliments and admonitions to keep going. I don’t know most of the respondents but for sure they have picked up something and they say so.

My wife has greater insight than I do most of the time. She is impressed that out of my 400-600 likes and responses I get with each article how many of them say something like, “You inspire me.” and “I want to look like you when I’m your age.” or “Can you help me with (something)?” I’m amazed because we all train hard but we never stop to think that the world is watching us to see if we are real. Whether our efforts can be trusted. Most of all, they want to be noticed and told that there is greatness in their desires and efforts. All of us need that assurance that what we are doing is worth it and that we can attain greater things than ourselves.

I would encourage all of us who do bodybuilding to be sensitive to the ‘watchers” who are always in the room. They are in the same place we were not so long ago. The deserve our best. This is the pattern that they are looking for and we can give it to them simply by our work ethic, our example, and our willingness to interact with them to encourage them to put forward their best.

I’m going to win! So show those that are watching us, “HOW IT’S DONE!”

REMEMBER! MANY ARE WATCHING US. THEY ARE LOOKING FOR THE GREAT MAN TO INSPIRE THEM TO GREATNESS!

LASTLY, THIS IS ANOTHER OPPORTUNITY TO SHINE AND TO MOVE THE “WATCHERS” TO THEIR OWN GREATNESS.

Let’s just consider the fact that all of us are different. Each of us brings something that is absolutely unique into the world. None of us posses much, if any identical looks, traits, idiosyncrasies, biases, and ideas. In all this infinite seething mass of humanity one of those people is you and one of them is me. This is not only true but profound.

The challenge for me is to define who I am and what makes me tick. It’s a lifetime of effort to say the least but eventually we become aware of the things that are truly ours.

Transitioning to bodybuilding, it has to be understood that my goals and objectives are different than the competitor standing beside me on stage. He is who he is and we will never be completely alike. These differences in body type and training and ultimate goals need not divide us or makes us enemies. However, when we take a particular path it is defined by so many things that are uniquely ours. In the process, we will be misunderstood, opposed, and sometimes overtly criticized. We have to be willing to walk alone and lose friends and associates and sometimes family members as we push ourselves in our own ways to the top. It is hard to “do it my way.”

Through hard work, perseverance and a faith in God, you can live your dreams—-Ben Carson, MD, Pediatric Neurosurgeon, Johns Hopkins University

Being willing to be different is risky business to our psyche, our self-esteem, and sometimes to our self worth. Take all the advice and wisdom to train hard and effectively knowing full well you may end up alone on the trail. Don’t stop! This is your time to do “do it your way!”

Remember who you are and what brought you this far.

Too often I/we put ourselves in a position of total dependence on others for our daily bread, our housing, our jobs, our finances and ultimately we surrender our person. We do this because I/we believe in our hearts that whatever we want or need requires something or somebody else. We are fashioning a dependent lifestyle totally void of our personalities.

The next stage in this drama is that we learn to take no responsibility for anything and we blame everybody else for our failures or problems. We become victims.

In order to “WIN” we have to decide to be winners. We have to come to grips with the reality that nobody else is going to do it for us. Whatever we want has to be obtained by sheer will and effort that “WE” generate! Go back to basics. Roll up your sleeves and go to work. Set your heart and mind on that which you desire. Make it happen. There is no White Knight to save us. There is no Fairy god-Mother. There is no Daddy War Bucks. Nothing in this world is free.

The most devastating fear that is fixed in my psyche is that I will be beholden to somebody and they will own me. I don’t ever want to be a serf. If I do something wrong I’ll take my stripes. If I am not worthy then I will suffer the consequences. End of story!

In bodybuilding we are motivated by our own dreams, our own goals and objectives. We make a plan and we stick to it. When things are not going well, we take steps to overcome the bad times. If we do these basic things we will win. But, we have to do it because, “NOBODY ELSE WILL!”

The take home lesson in all this is that we can win all by ourselves, alone, focused, and on fire with the dream.

Remember: “NOBODY ELSE WILL—–“