Deciding that we are entering a world that supremely honors winners means we have to be sure that we define our victories, how we are going to go about winning, and “WHEN” we are going to win. Most of us enter things that we have never done before because we somehow believe that doing this ‘THING” is the way to go. Each person has their own reasons for doing what we do and most, if not all of our relatives, friends, or colleagues will never understand nor will they take the time to figure out what makes us tick.
When I was old and already lived a great and satisfying life I decided to do bodybuilding. This decision has caused much criticism and consternation among my family member and relatives. The predominant question is “WHY/” I’ve tried to learn what these people thought as I discussed my experiences in preparation for contests, my trophies, my journey and I have heard many responses. I’ll share just one that is both validating and perplexing at the same time.
First, all of us who are bodybuilders want to win. Then, when we realize that we cannot win every time we step onto the stage we begin to understand that the bigger prize is to compete against ourselves to get better each time. It all culminates in us being in the best shape of our lives on the night of the show. Winning and being at our best are the goals and we put in the effort. Sometimes against all odds and inconveniences. Plus, we get to see our muscle head friends again. Everybody wins! I must understand that winning is never something that is ours just because we show up. It may not be immediate but you can bet that ultimately I will win. The journey to the top is its’ own reward. Back to work!!
The perplexing item is that some of my family believe that I am doing this mighty effort late in my life so that they will like me better. Hahahahaha! I love them because I love them. I have nothing to prove and nothing to win that will substitute for our great love and affection. Oh well! Part of pursuing something that is bigger than ourselves brings out the naysayers and doubters.
We have to determine and know that all of us will win…..WE WILL DEFINITELY WIN! Just stick with it. Never look back. Double down on your effort and commitment. Ignore your family and friends that who don’t believe in you and I promise you that if you do, they will be converted to your most ardent supporters and fans. Loving them is one thing but having them respect you is quite another. GO FOR IT GANG!—–AND WIN!
Vein running through bicep 
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Doug
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