So many times in our lives we judge ourselves by comparing ourselves to others. We look at their physical possessions, the amount of money they have, the handsomeness that they have, the clothes they wear, the friends they associate with, their athletic talents and gifts. In any case we are after something that “Can’t be Purchased.” Often the thing we desire will only be obtained through sheer effort. We don’t always have natural talents or support to press on to victory. We have to reach deep to find the heart that is required to be better than our competitors and the thing we want does not have a price tag.
Retreating to my world of bodybuilding I can tell you that there are so many other bodybuilders that are more gifted than me. I look at these guys backstage and I am amazed at their physiques. I am also aware of how much work has been poured into the battle to be their best. This work came at a cost and it is rarely money.
My journey requires me to train hard 6 days per week. I have to eat right, take the right kind of supplements, stay fit with the right amount of aerobic work, and I’ve got to pay close attention to my posing which can make the difference between looking great and looking not so great on stage. None of this is bought with money. The trophy in the end is a destination and a goal. It has to be earned with blood, sweat, and tears, generated by sheer effort and know how. Nothing is free but rest assured that none of these monumental goals can be purchased with money. If it could be purchased then everybody would have it. But, again—-it cannot be purchased.
In closing, note that the thing that you seek will cost you everything except money. The value is in making the journey from start to finish. The teacher is the experience in sticking it out and doing your best under the worst of circumstances sometimes.
In short: “What I’m After Can’t be Purchased.”
Until next time I remain, Douglas E. Graham, Lt Col, USAF, (ret), MHSM
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