“The Trophy is Earned in the Hours That No One is Watching”—Flex Lewis

 

 

It’s very gratifying to be motivated by an audience.  In fact all of us loves to be pushed by the friendly encouragement of people around us.   We long to hear the loud admonition of our training partners to do “one more rep.” We have tons of energy when the spotlight is on us to perform.  When the whole world is pulling for us to go higher, go faster, and do it now we respond like champs.

But, those of us who know something about competing and winning it should be noted that the majority of the work occurs when there are no lights, no friends, no vibrant choruses of encouragement—–in short—-“When No One is Watching.”

We have to decide that the Trophy we seek is worth it.  Then, we devise a training regimen, diet, supplementation course, and amount of cardio, and posing to win!  Each of these is rarely, if ever done in the presence of another person.  Each sequence is placed into a time frame and sequence that optimizes the training.  Often, a bodybuilder will have to get out of bed super early and get himself to the gym to train. Sometimes he/she gets up early to do cardio and to eat.  These early morning forays usually come before work.  There is no time to accomplish anything else but the training scheduled for that day.  After work, the work continues.  All this effort is driven by the individual with an internal clock attached to a lions heart.  Nobody pushes the bodybuilder during these times.  There is only the athlete against himself and the world with an eye toward the much sought after trophy.

 

The point to this entire discussion is that the place to win is alone.  The road to winning is not well lit and the journey is alone and out of the public eye.  Nothing is free or guaranteed but the work must be done in a manner that says, “I can and I will win!”  The Trophy is mine even as I work.

Be diligent.  Be determined. Be tough. Be focused. Don’t talk during workouts.  Nobody works harder than me/you.  Decide that the Trophy is yours/mine even now.

Until next time!  This is our time!

Douglas E. Graham, Lt Col, USAF, (ret), MHSM

“Bro! You Don’t Have a Minute to Spare!”

 

the admonition of my Training Coach, Justin Dees July 2016 after I competed in the Masters Nationals in Pittsburgh. At this point I was anticipating competing in the Uta Classic on 8 October 2016.  He said you have to increase your cardio, youu cannot miss workouts, you have to stick to the diet he prescribed for me, and I could not change the supplementation regimen that I had been using.  Justin was adamant that I get on with the process ASAP and not look back.  Also, a part of these instructions was the not so obvious expectation that I listen to him and to him only.

My new goal for the October 8, 2016 show was to get as “Peeled” as possible.  I had accomplised very dense musculature and size.  Getting lean for the stage was the order of the day and the end goal for the next several weeks. The secret to getting first cut, then ripped, then shredded is discipline…..Tons of it!  There is no margin for error and a total commitment to contest prep is required.  With all this in mind I began the descent to showtime on 8 October.  The net result is that I was in the best shape of my life and I placed high in the judging.  I could not have asked for anything more.

 

Eachof us faces the dilemma regarding when to begin our quest to accomplish that for which we are called.  Despite all the arguments to establish a starting date I am a severe advocate of beginning the journey to the top ASAP.  Any delay pushes off the  desire and ethusiasm that is requisite to making the journey and winning.  Each time we adopt a new reason for not launcing our effort the more difficult it will be to elevate ourselves to the effort level that is demanded.  The truth is, if we put off starting to a more convenient time the odds of us accomplishing our goals decreases.  So, the advise to be dispensed at this point is, “Get Started.”  I would add that you get started with a vengeance.  Start and do not look back.

I would submit that if any of us puts off what’s required to accomplish that for which we are called, we will probably not win.  Getting started is the one step that we can control but we too often don’t control it.  We allow everything and anything to derail our effort.   We have to move the project from the brain, to paper, to action in a very rapid manner or forget it.  Iniating action is a real demonstration of our commitment to get the job done.

To win, “None of us has a minute to spare.”  Start!  Find the motivation to be on the trail to winning.  The trophy will find you.

Until next time!  This  is our time!

Douglas E. Graham, Lt Col, USAF, (ret), MHSM

 

 

 

Preparation is the key!

 

“Hell, everybody wants to win. But, victory belongs to those that prepare to win.”—Bear Bryant, University of Alabama Football Coach, College Football Hall of Fame.

Preparation is everything. When we have a test to take, a game to play, a contest to compete in, there is a requirement to be prepared to do your absolute best, and in my case…..to win!

My season of bodybuilding prep has begun in earnest. I push myself to work hard with an eye toward perfection. I have this nagging fear that I am behind and that all my opponents are Out working me and thus my work ethic goes off the charts. No trip to the gym is treated as a social engagement to discuss inane things with my friends. Like my Coach, Justin Dees has said, ” Bro! You don’t have a minute to spare.” I have to develop a sense of urgency that propels me forward, keeps me engaged, and causes a greater than normal personal effort to win. This whole time is called “PREPARATION.” There is no substitute for it and you cannot fake it. The whole journey is your responsibility. Nobody can do it for you.

 

Major Suggestions:

1.) Determine what you want and why you want it.

2.) Make a plan to accomplish your goal.

3.) Each and every day prepare yourself mentally to execute each step of your plan with enthusiasm and an eye toward the prize.

4.) Perform the plan faithfully.

5.) Set up a system to measure your progress.

6.) When game day comes you will be ready because you prepared—to win!!!

We are the Captains of Our Own Ships! So let’s act like Captains and demand more of ourselves to win! Do not stop and do not delay—do it now!

“PREPARATION” is the bottom line. It cannot be neglected. So, kick the door wide open and “PREPARE” to win. I know I will.

Until next time. This is our time.

Douglas E. Graham, USAF, (ret), MHSM

 

When Motivation Runs Out, Discipline Must Take Over!

“Me and my hero–Flex Lewis”

Doug and Flex Lewis 14 March 2016Motivation to accomplish things in our lives comes from almost anywhere at first. Eventually, the motivation is very specific and pushes us on to victory or to the anticipated goal that we have set for ourselves.  There is nothing better in the world than to have a hero or a gigantic purpose that drive us in a given direction.  I personally, feed off the examples of my heroes, especially those in bodybuilding.  I can go for weeks or months just knowing that these gods are watching me and asking me to  be better.  I respond with a work ethic that is second to none.  Just ask those people who know me and they will tell you the same.

There are times however, when the motivation that pushed me forward, fed me, gave courage to overcome huge obstacles, to show me the way, has gone away.  It’s as if my internal compass has been rippped out of my chest and I am on my own.  I am essentially now unmotivated with my goal not yet reached.  What does a guy do at this point?

“My other hero is Victor Martinez”

Victor Martinez Most Muscular
Victor Martinez, Most Muscular

 

It is at this juncture when the thing that made us mighty in the first place is gone that we must reach deep inside ourselves to reignite the “belly full of want to” that got us started in the first place.  It’s here that we must invoke “discipline”that resides within our hearts. There is nothing else for us to throw at the goal.  Discipline must be the next order of business.  We know what to do and if we do not look for the right thing that will cause us to win we will lose.  How many times have we gotten all excited about something and there is a great deal of motivation, both real and imagined to accomplish that for which I am called?  Then, just as quickly, that motivation is gone.

Enter: Discipline!

Discipline is not a poor man’s concept.  Even when motivation is high, we have to be very personally disciplined to keep  going.  Discipline exercised will cause us to look at our long and short term goals. It will push us to never give up and it will cause us to commit ourselves to the task at hand despite the pain and suffering that will surely ensue.

Discipline needs to  be regarded as an absolutely necessary component to stay on task.  Life will not move without it!

I am on a quest in bodybuilding to turn pro this year. Last year, according to my coach Justin Dees, was my breakthrough year.  I did very well but didn’t accomplish my goal of turning pro by winning at a National Level.  This IS MY YEAR AND I SHALL NOT FAIL!  I have tons of motivation but I also know from tons of experience that this motivation will fade and I will be left to apply only discipline to win.  Discipline marks a lonely road but it Uhas to be traveled enroute to the trophies we seek.  When the alarm goes off too early in the morning, it’s discipline that gets our butts out of bed and going.  When the pain of training leaves me wilted and discouraged it’s the discipline God places in our hearts that keeps us going and enduring the pain.

Bottom line!  Motivation is cool but Discipline will carry the day.  Stay tuned for more great wins on my quest in bodybuilding. Also, stay in tune with the greatness that will  be manifested in your life as you chase your dream!

Until next time!  This our time!

Douglas E. Graham, Lt Col, USAF, (ret), MHSM

Christine & Doug
My best training partner, Christine and I together.